By IS Team
Congratulations on setting your wedding date and picking out a venue! Maybe you've even chosen your wedding invitations (if not, check out our sample kit to help you decide). Crafting the perfect wording for your wedding invites can feel a bit daunting, but don't worry—we've got your back!
You don't need to be a poet or an etiquette expert to get it right. We've gathered everything you need to know about what to write on each line, plus tips on handling any tricky situations with ease.
So, what exactly should your wedding invitations say? You'll want to cover the basics—the who, what, where, and when—but what's the best way to lay it all out? To make things a breeze, we've broken down the traditional structure of wedding invitation wording:
Host Line This is where you mention who's hosting the wedding. If multiple people are hosting, you can keep it simple by just mentioning names if you want a formal touch. If you and your partner are hosting the wedding yourselves, you can skip this line altogether!
The Invitation Here's where you invite your guests to join you. This line lets them know they're in for a special celebration!
Date and Time Traditionally, the date and time are spelled out in full. For a modern twist, you can use numerals—just make sure the font is clear so there's no mix-up (you don't want a "2" looking like a "5"!).
Your Names The stars of the show—you and your partner! Your names usually stand out in larger or fancier text.
Location: Include the full name and address of your wedding venue. If you're tying the knot abroad, don't forget to add the country.
Reception Details: If the reception is at the same place as the ceremony, a simple "Reception to follow" works perfectly. If it's at a different location, you can include those details on a separate card tucked into your invitation.
Dress Code (Optional) While not mandatory, mentioning the dress code can be super helpful for your guests. You can add this at the bottom corner of the invite, on a details card, or on your wedding website.
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1. Whose name goes first on wedding invitations?
If you're following traditional etiquette, the bride's name always goes first on wedding invitations. That said, it's really up to you to decide whether or not this tradition is something you want to follow. For couples that don't identify as a bride and groom, or if there are two brides, names are typically listed in alphabetical order.
2. Do you write guests' full names on the wedding invitations?
If following proper wedding invitation etiquette, yes. When you are addressing your invitation envelopes, you should spell their names out in full (title, first name, middle name (optional), and last name). Avoid using nicknames or initials. Be sure to use appropriate social titles as well, addressing married couples as "Mr. and Mrs." or "Mr. and Mr."
3. How should you write the dress code on a wedding invitation?
Stuck on wedding invitation verbiage etiquette for requesting a specific dress code? As we mentioned earlier, this should be stated at the bottom of your invitations, on a separate insert card or on your wedding website. There are a few different ways to phrase this information. Try these if you're looking for something concise to add to your invitation:
4. What are some modern wedding invitation wording examples?
Traditional style wedding invitations are not for everyone. If you want to avoid old-school language and formality, take inspiration from one of the following phrases for a more modern and creative way to share your news: